How to Organize a Last-Minute Holiday Party With Your Calendar

I’m not ashamed to admit it. When it comes to holiday movies, I have plenty of guilty pleasures. Case in point: Christmas with the Kranks.

Adapted from John Grisham’s novel “Skipping Christmas,” the movie follows Luther and Nora Krank as they decide to skip Christmas after their daughter leaves for the Peace Corps. However, when their daughter announces a surprise visit home, they find themselves in a blizzard of holiday chaos.

Though the plot seems a little fanciful, the holidays are filled with warmth, cheer, and, sometimes, unexpected opportunities to host gatherings. So, if you find yourself throwing a last-minute party, don’t panic.

Using the Kranks’ last-minute holiday scramble as inspiration, let’s explore how to pull off your own stress-free and festive gathering.

1. Begin with your calendar.

When it comes to last-minute planning, your calendar is your best friend. Whether you have a paper planner or an app, open it up and pick a time and date that works for you.

You should, however, keep the following in mind;

• Timing. Are you planning on a Thursday evening soirée or a relaxed Sunday brunch?
• Availability. Think about when your friends and family are likely to be available and check your availability.
• Lead time. Regardless of how last-minute your party is, give yourself at least two to three days to prepare.

Here are some additional tips for choosing a date and time;

• Take a look at your own schedule. Check your calendar for conflicts and block off potential dates.
• Ask for input. To find a date that works for most people, send out a quick poll using Calendar, Google Forms, or Doodle.
• Avoid major holidays. Try to schedule your shindig before or after big holidays such as Christmas or New Year’s Eve whenever possible.

Immediately after choosing the date, mark it on your calendar and send out invitations.

2. Make a quick guest list.

What makes a last-minute party successful? Knowing who will attend. Therefore, make a list of people likely to attend at short notice.

• Close friends and family. These people will likely adjust their schedules to join you.
• Local guests: To reduce travel barriers, invite friends, family members, co-workers, or nearby neighbors.
• Flexible RSVPs. Expect a mix of yes, no, and maybe responses.

Don’t forget to record names and RSVPs on your calendar. You can manage invites and updates using apps like Google Calendar or event-planning tools. You can create a shared spreadsheet or use an event planning app to keep track of RSVPs.

Bonus tip: Use your calendar to remind yourself to send follow-up messages or to finalize the list.

3. Choose a theme.

By having a theme for the party, you simplify decisions and give it a cohesive feel. To save time, keep it simple. The following are a few themes worth considering;

• Ugly Sweater Party. Guests are encouraged to wear their favorite quirky holiday sweaters to the party. (We always call this “The Ugly Sweater” party — and we’ve repeated this often). Friends love it even last minute.
• Hot Cocoa Bar Night. Guests can customize their own cocoa by choosing from a variety of toppings.
• Holiday Movie Marathon. As you serve snacks, play a selection of festive classics.

If you have chosen a theme, note it in your calendar and include it in your invitations.

4. Send out the invitations — or call if this is an impromptu party.

Since time is of the essence, digital invitations are the best option. You can send them via text messages, emails, or links from your digital calendar. Additionally, Evite and Paperless Post apps can send quick and attractive invitations.

No matter how you decide to deliver your invitations, make sure it contains the following information;

• Be sure to include the essentials, such as date, time, and location.
• To manage expectations, mention the gathering is casual and last-minute.
• To finalize your plans, set an RSVP deadline within 24 hours.

5. Prepare a simple menu.

A great holiday party is not complete without food and drinks. Last-minute parties, however, don’t mean spending hours in the kitchen. How? By choosing easy, crowd-pleasing options;

• Appetizers. Having cheese boards, crackers, shrimp cocktail rings, and premade dips on hand can make your life easier.
• Main dish. Make a simple meal like a pasta bake, chili, or sheet pan dinner.
• Desserts. If you’re in a pinch, grab some store-bought cookies, brownies, or a cake with festive decorations.

For menu planning, here are some additional steps to take;

• Choose recipes. Choose dishes that complement your theme and meet your dietary requirements.
• Create a shopping list. Schedule a day for grocery shopping.
• Prep in advance. To reduce day-of stress, block off time for meal preparation.

In addition, if you’re hiring a caterer, schedule consultations, tasting sessions, and end-of-event check-ins in your calendar.

6. Delegate tasks.

Don’t hesitate to ask for help by delegating tasks. Your guests will likely be more than willing to help- even if you’re the host.

• You can ask someone to bring desserts or drinks.
• Ask a friend or family member if you need help with music or decorations.
• When someone offers help, accept it graciously and give them a specific task.

Track these tasks on your calendar and coordinate with your helpers to ensure you stay on top of them.

7. Become an efficient and smart shopper.

Using your calendar to plan a shopping trip can save you time and money. This can be accomplished by creating a list of essential items and grouping them, such as;

• Groceries. Food, drinks, and serving supplies.
• Decorations. Fairy lights, candles, or themed tableware.
• Party supplies. Disposable plates, napkins, and utensils.

To keep your budget intact, keep to your list and avoid impulse purchases.

8. Streamline your decorations.

You can set the mood for your holiday party with the right decorations. Best of all? You don’t need a Pinterest-worthy setup for an unforgettable holiday party. Put your attention on a few statement pieces that will set the mood;

• Lighting. String lights, candles, or LED lamps can achieve a cozy glow.
• Table decor. Consider a festive runner, a centerpiece, or holiday napkins.
• Seasonal touches. Put some ornaments in bowls, pinecones, or a wreath on the door.

Also, schedule time to decorate in your calendar, whether it’s just an hour before the party or more.

9. Curate a playlist.

There is no doubt that music can make or break an ambiance. As such, find or create a playlist that matches the vibe of your party.

• Classic holiday tunes. This creates a warm, nostalgic atmosphere.
• Upbeat pop hits. These songs will get people up and dancing.
• Background instrumentals. Play soft instrumental holiday music for a perfect, relaxed gathering every time.

If you’re short on time, Spotify, Apple Music, and YouTube offer pre-made playlists. You can also add “music setup” to your calendar as a quick task.

10. Prepare a few games or activities.

To maintain energy, plan one or two low-effort activities.

• Trivia. Holiday-themed questions are festive and fun. Short on time? You can always find holiday trivia questions online, like these 75 questions from White Elephant Rules.
• Gift exchange. You can never go wrong with a white elephant or a Secret Santa gift exchange.
• DIY station. Provide a simple cookie-decorating corner or ornament-making station.

Don’t forget to schedule these activities during the event so that you can allocate time for them.

11. Tidy up smartly.

Your home doesn’t need to be deep-cleaned. Instead, target high-traffic areas;

• Living room. Arrange seating and clear any clutter.
• Kitchen. For food preparation and serving, make sure it’s clean and organized.
• Bathroom. Ensure the bathroom has fresh soap, toilet paper, and towels.

Your calendar should be cleared for a quick cleaning session the day before the party. Alternatively, you could hire a cleaning service if you have the budget.

12. Final touches and day-of prep.

Your calendar should guide the final steps on the day of the party;

• Morning. Light cleaning and grocery shopping.
• Afternoon. Decorate and set up the food and drinks.
• It’s evening. Prepare yourself, set up your music, and walk through to ensure everything is in order. I usually get help with the last set-up walk-through because I get some kind of anxiety right before guests get there. I’m sure they’ll hate everything. Don’t get me wrong; I always go through with the party, and the guests love it. They’re thrilled someone besides them is hosting it.

13. Relax and enjoy.

As soon as the party starts, your work is done! So, don’t worry about anything except enjoying your guests’ company. The most important thing is to let go of any perfectionist tendencies.

Pro Tips for Using Your Calendar Effectively

• Color code tasks. For quick visual reference, color-code tasks such as food, decorations, and invitations.
• Set reminders. Stay on top of your schedule by using your calendar’s reminder feature.
• Share your calendar. When co-hosting, share your calendar with your partner, so you’re all in the loop.

A Last-Minute Holiday Party to Remember

Your last-minute holiday party can be just as magical as a meticulously planned one with a little organization and a lot of heart. Don’t be afraid to take risks, trust your calendar, and enjoy the most wonderful time of the year.

In the end, the holidays are about bringing people together — and your impromptu gathering might just become a holiday tradition.

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